Ferdinando Scianna, Marpessa in her bed, Amsterdam, 1990.
“Your body is all honey and perfume–and freedom and seduction and temptation and God knows what else.”
- Henry Miller
I want to do with you what spring does with the cherry trees ๐
Have sex. Have dirty, raunchy sex. Have sex in the bed, on the counter, in the car, in the bathroom. Have it everywhere. Have passionate love making sex. Fuck. Go slow. Gaze into their eyes. Learn every curve and bump on their body. Learn what makes them quiver. Learn what makes them cum the hardest. Feel their body and fall back in love with them. Just have sex.
Itโs important to recognize that you are a soul with a bodyโฆ not a body with a soul
When sex becomes a production or performance that is when it loses its value. Be mutual. Be loud. Be clumsy. Make noises, be quiet, and make a mess. Bite, scratch, push, pull, hold, thrust. Remove pressure from the moment. Love the moment. Embrace it. Enjoy your body; enjoy your partnersโ body. Produce sweat, be natural, entice your senses, give into pleasure. Bump heads, miss when you kiss, laugh when it happens. Speak words, speak with your body, speak to their soul. Touch their skin, kiss their goose bumps, and play with their hair. Scream, beg, whimper, sigh, let your toes curl, lose yourself. Chase your breath; keep the lights on, watch their eyes when they explode. Forget worrying about extra skin, sizes of parts and things that are meaningless. Save the expectations, take each second as it comes. Smear your make up, mess up your hair, rid your masculinity, and lose your ego. Detonate together, collapse together, and melt into each other.
I was laying in bed one night and I thought โIโll just quitโ to hell with it.โ And another little voice inside me said โDonโt quitโ save that tiny little ember of spark.โ And never give them that spark because as long as you have that spark, you can start the greatest fire again.
If youโre struggling, you deserve to make self-care a priority. Whether that means lying in bed all day, eating comfort food, putting off homework, crying, sleeping, rescheduling plans, finding an escape through a good book, watching your favorite tv show, or doing nothing at all โ give yourself permission to put your healing first. Quiet the voice telling you to do more and be more, and today, whatever you do, let it be enough. Feel your feelings, breathe, and be gentle with yourself. Acknowledge that youโre doing the best you can to cope and survive. And trust that during this time of struggle, itโs enough.
“Your body is all honey and perfume–and freedom and seduction and temptation and God knows what else.”
- Henry Miller
We will have great mysteries in each other’s arms, we shall walk together and eat together and talk together.
Panther I love you as I have never loved anyone. I love you like a first love. I give myself to you. I kiss your feet. I kiss your shoulders, and the soft side of your body.
She enjoyed his weight on her, enjoyed being crushed under his body. She wanted him soldered to her, from mouth to feet.
Then you supposed to hold her hands down & continue eating until you see her soul leave her body……..
Then you get her pizza!
There’s no other way to do it.
